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The Ultimate Guide to High Heel Shoes- COMFORT HEIGHT and STYLE, pumps, stilettos, wedges

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The Ultimate Guide to High Heel Shoes- COMFORT HEIGHT and STYLE, pumps, stilettos, wedges. Here is everything you wanted to know about high heel shoes. I love high heels, the higher the better. Some of my favorite high heels are of course christian louboutin so kate, and christian louboutin Pigalles. I also love strappy sandals, i think they are perfect for summer 2017. I’m thinking about maybe doing a video teaching you how to walk in high heels. There are many different types of heels that I will talk about in this video to choose from, pointed toe pumps, stilettos, block heels, kitten heels, round toe, almond toe, platform shoes, Enjoy!

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126 thoughts on “The Ultimate Guide to High Heel Shoes- COMFORT HEIGHT and STYLE, pumps, stilettos, wedges

  1. So black

    1. @Shafqat Hussain Is there a problem?

  2. …but how does one not feel confident wearing them?

  3. 7:38 would be a perfect shoe for work in the office ๐Ÿ‘by the way I had no problems wearing that nigh of shoe after a few times. I guess I’m just a naturalist at it ๐Ÿ˜

  4. Converse girl here ๐Ÿ˜ greetings from a lower altitude ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜… these look gorgeous tho ๐Ÿคฉ but arenโ€™t made for me…would never be able to walk straight. And: how about bunions?

  5. Thank you, learned a lot.

  6. Woooow interesting, how can I get it

  7. Wow thank you so much

  8. “If you go to the grocerie store”

  9. Heels are a sport

  10. They all look the same๐Ÿคท๐Ÿพโ€โ™€๏ธ

  11. Donโ€™t get me wrong stilettos are not the easiest shoes to walk in but give me them over wedges any day!

  12. No offence, but at the start I got scared as it looked like you didn’t have arms ๐Ÿ˜‚

  13. Where did you get your shoes from

  14. Pointy toe pumps with 3 to 4 inch heel are the sexiest shoes.

  15. That feeling you dont have any high heel shoes and your height is 5’1 lol huhu

  16. Pointy toe stiletto heels are my favorite.

  17. Are all the heels in back ground all personally hers?

    1. yes

  18. This is a great video to watch… Cause i am getting into walking in fashion shows

  19. Im 4’11 and I just ordered a 8cm high heels. I usually wear kitten heels. Do you think that i’ll have problems to balance?

  20. I like heels soo much…. Every shoes is looking soo good

  21. ๐Ÿ’™THANK YOU ๐Ÿ’™ … Please don’t discriminate. Kitten Heels are best for the mature age and/or for individuals who suffer from arthritic knees that require heels on occasion when wearing business attire and going out on those special evening occasions.

  22. Thanks for this! I am always puzzled when I see people walking in high heels in places like NY/on the subway… which means that they are probably walking a long distance and not taking a car. I can only walk about a block in heels before they are killing my feet! Investing in some wedges for summer parties this year…

  23. Seriously cannot thinks of 1 reason to own so many shoes but that is what makes the world go round. Steve Madden would love to see your closet!!! xo Great video.

  24. I wore the high (tall 4 inch ) heels all my life until 40. I now have back problems due to high heels. So I am stuck now wearing kitten heels and there is nothing wrong with that. Love your collection.

  25. May I spoil you with shoes as a gift?;)

  26. Jaman vizuri sana dada

  27. I work with someone who use to wear very high heels until her knees and lower back began to hurt and she can now only wear a kitten heel. She says flats make her too short and doesn’t like walking flat footed.

    1. I used to have knee and back problems and was about to trow all my shoes away. I started working out targeting my core, abs and legs, the pain slowly went away. So I started putting on my lower wedges, upgrading to my higher ones. Now I’m back to wearing my high heels.
      Just take your time with it.

      Much love from the Netherlands ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿพ

  28. also want to laugh when every time you say how uncomfortable heels can be like scary… just silly funny… enjoyed your video new sub ๐Ÿ™‚

  29. your video is very informative my personal favorite is vince camuto highest heels they are so comfortable to me and alond with the curve of the heel it also depends on the positioning of the heel as well.. vince positioning fits me the best few others are to but his the best for me i can stand in his 4.5″ and up all day easy

  30. I can do anything in high heels at any height , but not a wedge!!! Itโ€™s weird. I always see beautiful wedges but I cannot walk in them ๐Ÿ˜’.

  31. I wont this shoes to order where I can find it?

  32. Kitten heels look fantastic on tall girls like me. I’m 6 ft.ย ย  We can pretty much rock everything.ย  Good video! ๐Ÿ™‚

  33. I love your video

  34. I’m with 100% lol what’s the point

  35. My real Louboutins are leather and they break in as you wear them or you can stretch them the red sole dupes are not leather and really can not be stretched!

  36. This high heels good,Good heels in this house, I hope to be able to cooperate with you

  37. You have a shoe palace โœŒโœŒโœŒ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ‘ข๐Ÿ‘ก๐Ÿ‘ข๐Ÿ‘ก๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ข๐Ÿ‘ก๐Ÿ‘ข๐Ÿ‘ก๐Ÿ‘ข๐Ÿ‘  ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ข๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ข๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ข๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ข๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ก๐Ÿ‘ข๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ก
    Helpful video โค i have a struggle walking in heels i always feel like im going 2 fall lol

    1. lol. It takes practice

  38. kitten heels are to ugly lol

  39. Wow

  40. Sooo Nubian Skin has a new line of pumps wondered if you would be interested in reviewing them?

    1. InATimelyFashion they are an undergarment and hosiery company for women of color now branching out into shoes. They pride themselves on being or exposing the other nude colors.

    2. Oh really? I’ve never heard of them. I will check it out

  41. I will say this in terms of kitten heels I agree EXCEPT for Manolo Blahnik Carolyne one of the most iconic kittenheels.and Chanel Kitten heels. if they aren’t these brands it’s a no for me.I feel they are great for the office and 40s-60s looks and if done right can look good. but a lot of people don’t do it right and does look dated so I can see why you don’t like them

  42. there are so beautiful i envy you girl.. ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š

  43. Stretching your feet and ankles prior to wearing heels helps and Vaseline helps if your shoes rub

  44. Great video. ๐Ÿ‘ and Sign me up ๐Ÿ”” ! Personally, I think kitten heels are more elegant & feminine than fat-heeled flats.

    BTW, on those MaryJanes, the strap is usually an arch– or instep strap. A little farther back, not quite to the ankle, it’s called a “quarter strap” and attaches to the front of the heel cup on one or both sides. The babydoll toe (wide and round) is classic on those if you are going for a more demure look.

    I think the sexiest style stiletto is the d’Orsay pump (one or both sides open or clear), often seen with a Tee-strap. At the very end, did you call that flared heel a “swoon” or “spoon” heel ?

  45. Never knew about the curved heel but I will be definitely pay attention to that the next time Im shopping. Also even though Im tall (5’8) I usually prefer platforms and open or peep toe for comfort. And I mostly buy Gianni Binni brand (from Dillards) because they are super comfy. Thanks for the tips!

    1. I 100% agree.

  46. death to the kitten heels.

    1. Christi chronicles lol

  47. Awesome ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ shoes ๐Ÿ‘  collection

    1. Fitfashionistarocks thank you.

  48. SN: You kinda look like MakeupShayla.

    1. Tina kai lol

    2. InATimelyFashion wait a min! you do kinda sound alike

    3. Extraordinary Woman funny you say that. Someone else said I sound like her. I don’t see the resemblance but she’s pretty so I’ll take it as a compliment. Thank you.

  49. Girl, I thought you was gone show me how to walk in ’em… I need help ๐Ÿ™

  50. I have some fancy wedges I would def dress up

    1. Donica Mcintosh awesome.

  51. Where are the beginner red shoes from?

    1. Amadea Ramirez a store at the mall called sheikh

  52. I’m at the age of comfort at any cost lol. Platforms, wedges, and comfort soled flats for me. Good luck young ladies.

    1. Sheriece McWilliams makes sense. No matter what you wear I know you’ll be looking wonderful.

  53. My sister-in-law is 6′ 1 and all she’s ever worn since I’ve known her are flats or kitten heels. She can dress though!

    1. 2871lovely wow she’s tall. More power to her. I hope she embraces her height.

  54. i think the better word for the 3″ heel would be that the placement of the heel gives you balance. not comfort.. I don’t think there is a such thing as high heel comfort… I am bow legged and i think that is the reason it is IMPOSSIBLE for my lets to act right on heels.. If you have ANY SUGGESTIONS !! I mean ANY !! please do a follow up . can not go any higher than 3 1/2″ AND it’s hard to find a 3-31/2″ CUTE heel…

    1. angelisa t perhaps try sole inserts. I never thought about my bowed legged girls. They need to make high heels for y’all.

  55. I like wearing Vince camuto high heels I can wear to weddings dance the night away and Sam Edelman as well

    1. So do I so I researched them, I could always were 9West shoes and Bandolinio’s-which are both made by the same manufacturer, and what I found out is that Vince Camuto,RIP, was the lead designer for 9West!!! I just discovered Jessica Simpson shoes (mentally did not want to wear her shoes) but found out that Vince Camuto makes all her shoes!!! They are really comfortable and so now I search for her shoes bc they are more stylish than 9West, and I can never find then anyway. If you find a shoe you always love, research on google and you may be surprised who manufacturers them. PS, I can afford but, HATE Christian Loub shoes!!!!!! Still in search of a comfortable designer shoe!!!

    2. sheri braga that’s awesome.

  56. I think when it comes to wearing heels it’s a personal preference, whether you prefer kitten heels ( which I wear and higher) it still makes any outfit dressier as opposed to flats ( which I wear too). I live in NYC and we walk in heels down the street, and walking on pavement is more challenging then wearing heels inside of a building after getting out of a car. We wear different lengths of heels depending on where we are going and what we are doing.

    1. MsMalika64 I have a million pair of joggers heels and I just purchased some kitten heels they are comfortable. I noticed that kitten heels are very popular Iโ€™m NYC stylish I live down south no one like kitten heels but I would rather wear kitten heels than walk painfully in high heels and worse take the off just to free myself from the misery of wearing painful heels

    2. MsMalika64 you’re right. Depends on the occasion and where you’re headed.

  57. Lmao kitten heels reminds me of the little girl shoes at toys r us

    1. Lol and my grandma

  58. I love watching your videos I wish my closet look like that you are so beautiful ๐Ÿ˜ great video

    1. InATimelyFashion your welcome but it’s the truth your so beautiful I see u like a in the grocery store with a jimmy choo bag in heels some Gucci sunglasses ๐Ÿ˜Ž on your head with a bunch of Guy’s breaking necks lol with that many heels I know you wear heels all the time

    2. sheri braga thank you so much

  59. What do you recommend for those of us who get pain on the balls of the foot and not the heel?

    1. Mawita81 sole inserts may work. Also one thing you can do is while standing still in heels try to push your feet towards the back of the heel to alleviate the pain on the balls of your feet

  60. Never knew that the curve in the heel could help indicate comfort level. Thank you! ๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’—

    1. nikita, unfortunately the information is not accurate. a common fallacy of mistaking correlation for causation. the shape of the toebox, the stiffness of the materials, the actual shape of the arch, and how those factors interact with the shape of your foot are the determining factors. the forward placed heel creates balance issues, especially on higher heels.

    2. a s rose I see. Thank you!

    3. Nikita, It’s a forward-placed heel. Gives better arch support and is easier to walk in.

    4. Nikita Francois I didn’t know too! Inatimelyfashion thank you for that! ๐Ÿ˜˜

    5. Nikita Francois yep. It’s true. You’re so welcome.

  61. I’m not here for ktnheels either, but I AM here for their height. I’d just have to do it in a block heel or wedge.
    3.5 is my target heel height tho’…I don’t do the hoe’height stillettos myself (except perhaps with platform), but females who do, tend to lowkey provide me with endless entertainment.

    What size do you wear tho’? You look like you have big boat feet, but the shoes themselves don’t appear visually to be very big.
    I’d be so mad at myself if I had your shoe collection because I’m almost CERTAIN that I’d still only wear a handful of them which would be MADD wasteful of me ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

    I am of the belief that wedges in fact ARE/can be ‘fancy”. ButThatsJUSTme.
    It’s probably a tomboygirl thing.

    You covered a lotta REAL shyt tho’…A very nicely arranged video.

    1. ToughLoveTV thank you. I do have big feet size 9. Of course I don’t wear all the heels either. I’m more of a collector at this point. But yes whatever your style is then go for it. If you like it I love it.

  62. Me watching from Philippines @1:02am in the morning…I love the way you explain the shoes…Can i ask??How many high heels u have???๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜i love them…I love the brown one…โคโคโคโคCan i hve one????๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

    1. Cindy Villena, Have you ever seen the shoe collection of Imelda Marcos ? ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘  โ˜บ

    2. CINDY VILLENA no I have not worn all of them yet.

    3. InATimelyFashion Very nice…Did u all wear it???or not…

    4. CINDY VILLENA hi there. I’m not sure how many I have maybe over 150 pairs.

  63. thanks !

  64. Hi!! I loved your video and I think that you hit on a lot of good points!! I love the pointed toe heels lolol!! you are so right about them squeezing because I have wide feet!! I wear all of the shoes you mentioned except for the kitten shoes!! and I think that you definitely addressed or explained each shoe perfectly and the comfort and discomfort of the shoes!!! The only shoes that give me such a hard time is the open strap I can only wear them for maybe 3 hours lolol. Again I loved your video and your very valuable insights on heels you were very detailed on soo on point!!! Xoxo Pam ๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž

    1. Diamond76 a woman after my own heart. I really tried to be thorough in this video because I was getting asked a lot of questions on this. I really like strappy sandals but they can be a pain to walk in at times. Thanks for watching once again. Always good hearing from you.

  65. I like kitten heels. I can work with them. Flats don’t look good with everything and I personally need some kind of support because flats don’t provide that. A kitten heel looks a little more dressy but without the heel height.

    1. Agreed. I love kitten heels. I have high arches and flats are more painful. Too high of a heel is painful as well. The kitten heel is best for my foot

    2. alwaysmylove Well then you need to re-evaluate your male hormones and the effect they have on the way you think because they are making you sound completely judgmental,rude and disrespectful. If lower heels are not attractive on a woman to you I can accept that itโ€™s just not what you like. But you also need to understand that everyone has different preferences for what makes them feel comfortable and sexy and itโ€™s a harsh judgment if you perceive women who wear lower heels as little girls. If you donโ€™t like lower heels fine but respect and accept the choices of others who do like them. Not everything and everyone in this world is revolved around what you think.

    3. @Venus Taureau Male hormones is what qualifies me. Real women wear heels. Little girls wear flats.

    4. alwaysmylove Stop right where you started whoever you are or whoever you think you are. You donโ€™t know me and donโ€™t pay for any of the shoes in my closet so donโ€™t ever use the word lazy or prude when youโ€™re addressing me. You keep posting comments about what real women do so please let me know exactly what qualifies you to tell grown women what they should and should not do? Donโ€™t worry Iโ€™ll wait.

    5. @Venus Taureau Youre lazy and a prude. Only real women wear heels and not sky high heels just regular 4 inch heels.

  66. 3hrs???..Mama, you good. ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…

    1. ChooChoogirlelle that shows you she wears heels a lot!!

    2. ChooChoogirlelle lol.

  67. Great vid! Do you ever use or could recommend any inserts like the foot bumber?…my foot slides forward in the open toe higher heels but im afraid to pay for expensive inserts incase they really dont work. lol

    1. all loveable,

      I find that a combination of gel pads under the foot ball and gel supports just in front of the foot ball not only cushions the balls of my feet, but keeps my toes from sliding too far forward. This has been a great help in giving comfortable extended wear, walking & dancing, and I suspect has helped me avoid injuries and deformities.

      I am ballet trained and also have very high arches, which often calls for added arch support in many cheaper & imported makes. Dancers learn early on, to invest in shoe modification & maintenance in order to protect their precious feet.

      Walโ€ขMarts have a great selection of Dr Scholl’s and other gel appliquรฉs at reasonable, competitive prices. The cheap foam liners don’t do me much good except where there is too much space in a heel cup.

      I love being able to wear my 4-6″ heels, and I know girls who no longer can because they developed problems from buying cheap, poor-fitting shoes and not taking care of their feet.


    2. InATimelyFashion Wow i wish i was a high heel OG too but i cant take it! ๐Ÿ˜„Lol! ive tried the drugstore inserts and they were a waste. Lol Thank you!

    3. allloveable I’ve never used sole inserts I just live through the pain lol. But maybe you could just try drugstore dr scholl’s and see if that helps. If it does then maybe next you can splurge on the more expensive sole inserts.

  68. I have to buy the first shoes..low heels..thanks!. I can’t balance like I use to in my young days. Thanks for showing them. You have some pretty shoes..yes those red ones ..

  69. j’adore tes vidรฉos

    1. Ndeye Diawara merci beaucoup ๐Ÿ˜Š

  70. Lol. You don’t believe in Kitten heels? My daughter calls them “Hillary Clinton 2.0s”. I agree. A pointed toe flat is much better.

    1. What I find is that the kitten heel is more acceptable and appropriate in corporate America and a heel under3- 4 inches. I take a pair and leave them at work๐Ÿ˜believe it or not corporate America judge women on their shoes… when I walk out I’m back in my sexy girl high heels.
      Thanks for sharing๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ‘ 

    2. Nickels77 hahaha. That’s funny.

  71. What about wedges for office is appropriate?๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ก๐Ÿ‘ขโค๏ธyour shoes

    1. Christina Flores I would say so. I’ve done it before.

  72. Kitten heels are a waste of a shoe! And your lubiton are a perfect replica! Where did you find them?

    1. Aliexpress but the seller I got them from is no longer there.

  73. Watching from Cali. 6:20am

    1. Meme Kendall you rock!

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