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These Dresses Are Not Classy!

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  2. Do you only dress to look like a lady in front of men? That’s all what you actually said, your videos are like a 7/10 but when you just mention men it turns a 0/10 🥱

  3. Men dont care they just want the kittykat no matter what women wear

  4. Thanks to your advice you Anna, since I started improving the choice of wearing garment appropriately , I’ve got so many turn-heads from both men and women

  5. How about I make my own money and wear whatever I want without giving two shits about what someone else thinks?…life is too short to wear clothes that don’t flatter your body.

  6. Good channel to help women feel confident however I do not believe a woman should do things to herself to “find” or appeal to a man. Why? Thats ridiculous. Ladies do it for YOURSELVES! As you are all special. You do not need to dress for a man to like that’s ridiculous. I don’t know if the author does it and wants to share it and she should. But everyone should appreciate themselves for who they are and grow. Do things for your own being , NOT to please some guy you want to impress. You will glow from this place.

  7. “Look at this blimp” 😅😅😅
    I love you

  8. I’m all for simplicity elegance and cute with femininity.

  9. Awesome 🙂
    What are your thoughts on JLos fashion dresses lol

  10. That mui mui dress is adorable

  11. Watching this for story writing purposes. This is great content! So essentially you’re teaching people to have self respect for their bodies. Class usually entails modesty and people don’t make the connection that you can be sexy and classy and modest.

  12. Girlfriend from Friday Night Funkin is shaking with anger rn

  13. can you show examples of women in dresses in there early 20’s

  14. You are my big sister now

  15. the 2.3k dislikes are from women who wear these dresses lol

  16. “4,000 for a dress that looks like a curtain” I am cracking up😆

  17. Depends where you going, what kind of crowd u dealing with and what kind of place is that?

  18. You’re so funny 😂

  19. And here I am dressing like her ” no no 1st point” every single day. The “grandma dress” and I love it
    The hell with what others think 😂😂😂😂

  20. Hi Anna! I know I’m a year too late but looking at the dresses you suggested, I’m very interested in the upkeep of luxe and more expensive fabrics and clothes. How to clean and take care of metallics, pleated skirts, cashmere etc. Even shoes! Jewelry. That video would be so helpful!! Thank you ❤️❤️

  21. Can you make a video suggesting types of clothing and dresses for pear ladies?

  22. I’m in my early fifties and I don’t want to look like grandmother or a teenager I want to look chick and unique. Just not over do it or under do it. Thank you for sharing your experience on how to dress appropriate. 😲💜😲

  23. Every dress looks elegant if u know extly how to dress up them and where, place n occasion should be kept in mind I like bodycon dresses I wear them in night club but u should know it is not to much it should be decent not velgur if u wear them in day time on lunch or whatever occasion it will look desaster.

  24. It’s true these dresses are club dresses 🥱😂

  25. would you say house of cb is a no go ?

  26. I love how she started roasting herself first 😹 i love you Anna

  27. The blue polka dot dress is actually very pretty and elegant. Nice for a brunch event.

  28. You should do a video on classy outfits to wear for casual occasions like running errands, a sports event, or even for moms!

  29. That’s hilarious 😆🤣😂 pause this video and throw it out 🤣😂

  30. What is your opinion about Rachel Allan’s dresses? And Jovani’s? I like these brands

  31. Hahaha “man repeller strategy won’t serve you”

  32. Hi I’m from Philippines 🇵🇭 and I really like all your tips to look like a million dollar in a simple way but elegant. Thank you

  33. Me watching this video and my metallic dress just looking at me 😅

  34. Anna bey is awesome .,always thanks for yo advise 😉

  35. Do classy dresses now!

  36. You looks to beautiful ❤️❤️

  37. Can you please have videos on how to look classy for people with belly weight 😫😩

  38. Hahaha I absolutely agree, I’m glad I’m watching her as a young women in my late teens. I will say I think you can make a body con dress look very feminine and elegant, you just need to have the body for it and make sure it’s not short. I love maxi body con dresses. Lovely video ❤️

  39. She sounds like my cousin Tanya from Odessa… Very insecure Eastern European woman….trying to pass for a confident woman

  40. Everything was very well said. Simple classy elegant sophisticated 😊

  41. 2:43 I actually liked this ahhh! 🥺

  42. I’m going to return my floral dresses! Just purchased them and now I see how cheap they make me look!

  43. Nice channel but this doesn’t apply anymore in the post covid era. Nobody cares about being fancy anymore. It’s about surviving.

  44. While I don’t necessarily agree with the delivery of your statements… I do get what you are saying.

    But let me leave you with this… I spent my early adult years dressing for women, and I was not happy.

    I spent my late 20’s/early 30’s dressing for men, and I was not happy.

    I recently started dressing for myself and it’s the happiest I’ve ever been.

    I am also accepted and welcomed into every atmosphere and event I attend. If I’m whispered about, I do not care.

  45. Currently binge watching !

  46. 💘 ur content

  47. Ahahaha I love her honesty 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  48. The amo

  49. How to do makeup to look more elegant and feminine and soft looking…

  50. Please make a video for dresses for respective body shapes.

  51. Your like my older sister thank you for helping us ♥️♥️♥️

  52. Anna, your legs are really beautiful, don’t know why you said they were too big or something like that in a previous video. They’re athletic legs, what you want? Two sticks? Ughhhh no, please.

  53. I’m so relieved to know other women have similar views when it comes to less being more. The current generation is all about fashion and making bold statements, but if you have both a bold personality + bold clothing, it could come off tasteless and gaudy.

  54. Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

  55. I wore jeans and sport shoes in the Ritz after a long tiring journey last think i would think about is if attract someone or no

  56. I hate metallic dresses. It’s just horrible.

  57. I literally would love to have a coffee with you haha, love how straight forward you are. This is so refreshing since everyone now-a-days is so concerned with making sure not to offend absolutely anyone. Love your realness.

  58. I’m just going to dress how I want not to “attract” someone…

  59. Lol you’re so funny. thank you for always share. Love you

  60. I really like you!!! Haha ❤️ Thanks for the devices!! I’m on the way to become a classy lady. 💅🏻

  61. Sorry to barge in, I had to give a round of applause at 3:25. That hit home to me too. I always find cool looking clothes completely destroyed by one little “artsy and creative” sh1t that fashionistas just can’t hold back. Curse their entire guild!

  62. Wow u look so different now

  63. I guess I want great man. No so much rich lol

  64. U don’t like the 80s 90s ers do u ? W shoulder pads

  65. I love very girly im to big to wear solid cooors

  66. Your at beach.. pretty color

  67. I ask my self.. would she wear this

  68. “Star Trek dress”😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

  69. Modesty with an elegant, sophisticated and feminine look is the main keys when it comes to clothing for women…Man will respect you.

  70. 🤣

  71. What if the bodycon dress is formal but not too fitted and goes below the knee? Then paired with a blazer?

  72. When choosing clothes now I strive for neutrals and styles that remind me of business professional/casual. That makes it easy to always spot elegant clothes that are tasteful and attractive ☺️

  73. Wait… I just saw you wearing a silver metallic dress in another video. 🤔

  74. I do not think showing cleavage is classy under any circumstances. Put the boobs away.

    1. I find it odd that people now find cleavage inappropriate now but back in the 1700s & some points in the 1800s even the high class women had heaving bosoms & showed of the girls yet no one thought anything of it😅

  75. You really have to watch red because depending on the shade it can look cheap.

    1. I used to think that way and now I’m getting a BA to display them 🤣

    2. My Grandma always told me the brighter the shade of red the more hoochie it looks. The only somewhat bright red dress that was classy was Julia Robert’s dress in Pretty Woman.

  76. I love this video!! I hate all the slutty clothes!! I’ll wear it in the house or in the bedroom…

  77. I wasn’t sure what to expect but you’re dead right, I like you 😂 you remind me of Sophie Hermann from Made in Chelsea

  78. Welp, time to burn the whole closet.

  79. New Years Eve or birthday

  80. Anna, I ADORE your video’s so much! You’re so informative and helpful. I would love for you to do a video on more modest, elegant fashion ( I am a Muslim Woman and wear a Hijab/ head wrap ) and I would love to hear your advice on more modest yet expensive looking styles.
    Thank You! Love your video’s ❤❤❤🙏

  81. Anna B always on point.

  82. I get dressed to make myself look and feel good. If you’re dressing with the goal of attracting a “high class man”, you’ve lost the plot…

  83. I love your videos, could you make one video how to look elegant and modest as I am Muslim. I am wearing nice midi dresses with heels and exc. but could you please make some video for more wider society please ? ❤️

  84. ok but girl why would you ever dress for men they don’t deserve it

  85. Anna! I love your top🥰 do you mind sharing the brand?

  86. I’m a lazy hippie girl who buys everything second hand and who sometimes can’t bother washing their hair or clothes, but I still enjoy your content

  87. It’s better to be classy but there is nothing bad in being sexy and provocative for your man sometimes, you don’t need to follow rules all the time

  88. I used to buy classy, elegant clothing from designer labels, but it made me broke. So now, I just buy everything from City Beach. 😆

  89. Choose whiches fit
    That’s all..

  90. Wow ❤️💖

  91. you’ve mentioned marimo boutique before , could you please give us some other online stores to buy classical pieces. please. thank you

  92. Is fascinating to see your videos, I love your suggestions to look better and classy

  93. What are your thoughts on velvet dresses?

  94. I totally agree on the # 7 never liked it dont care who makes found it TACKY CHEAP looking dress

  95. 2:34 oh gosh 🤣🤣🤣

  96. THANKS AGAIN!!! Kisses from Chile 🇨🇱🌟❤️😇

  97. I don’t add “glitter” because I want to look rich, I do because I love glitter. Modest clothes. Of course, for clubs it’s a different thing, you can’t go with a long formal dress 🤨

  98. I don’t care what anyone else thinks, I believe Anna teaches ladies how to combat superficial norms in today’s society and use it to their advantage.

  99. 😂😂😂

  100. Jil Sander is a lovely minimalist and classy brand

  101. I’m glad I’m not the only person who strongly dislikes sequence & rhinestones on clothes!

  102. Hi ma’am I’m from india ..
    Please suggest how to look elegent in Indian clothes..

    1. Seriously? You think she has experience with Indian clothes? Go ask Komal Pandey or some other Indian fashion blogger.

  103. You’re amazing

  104. Love your videos!!! Please could you do a video on dresses that are classy?

  105. Man Repeller 😅😅😅 gotta love you

  106. On one hand you‘re saying to each their own but then you‘re saying things like “I got a shock” about a dress

  107. Agree with u

  108. You are absolutely right ,thanks a lot dear .

  109. I enjoy watching Anna’s videos and valuable tips, I am 63, and do you think I can buy a really nice dress?? Impossible, either too raunchy, too frumpy or too loud! I am petite, and 5′ 2″, please do a video of ideas for us mature ladies. Keep up your fabulous work, I feel I’m with a best friend. Love and kind wishes from the u.k.

  110. Just wanted to buy a Versace dress but glad I didn’t)))

    1. Versace has the most beautiful dresses ..I absolutely love that brand ..

  111. Can bodycon dresses be worn with turtle neck and leggings?

  112. Hii I’m an asian of 18 yrs old. It’s really nice to learn all these policies of elegancy. Thank you ma’m

  113. My sister always told me if you are unsure about if the dress is nice you should just leave it it’s probably not

  114. I once knew a sax player called Felicity Saxophonist who bought these kind of dresses for her performances in weddings and private parties. She desperately tried to pass herself off as a sophisticated, glamorous woman, but the truth was absolutely different. She normally chose cheap looking clothes and excessive makeup and was anything but classy. I would define her style as pretentious and trashy

  115. I love this 😂😂😂♥️♥️♥️♥️

  116. The dress at 10:24 is sooooooooo cute

  117. I love your each and every single video 😁😘❤️lots of love to yuo

  118. 😂😂😂😂😂

  119. Can you recommend any store to get some beautiful elegant but flirtatious dresses? I have a hard time finding them in USA

  120. Tbh Versace ornamental looking clothes are better suited with high fashion body type (tall, and very thin), same with Gucci. If not, it’s become just “too much”, your curve is “an ornament” itself, so curvy woman better wear no-pattern dress.

  121. Everytime I watch a video of yours, I change a habit or throw some clothes away

  122. The sound effects had me ded 😂 omg thank you for making this video. In addition to scrapping my entire wardrobe, I now know what dresses to buy too 🤣

  123. The one she suggesTed are so my type 🤣 bcoz I can’t wear sleeveless as I have lots is spots on my arms and back due to allergies😢 so these are the perfect my type of dresses. The only skin I can show is my legs 😂

  124. The dress can be short but not too tight on the body

    Got it

  125. I feel like the more I watch your videos the more I see your personality and sense of humor, it’s great👌

  126. Lmfao 0:05

  127. Can u make a video of how to look elegant n wedding or any special ceremony

  128. Amazing. 🌷🌷🌷💕🌺💓💓💓💓🎶💓Wow Like this channel so much.

  129. Your Brown hair is beautiful.

  130. Can anyone suggest some clothing sites or brands where the type of clothes she recommends without that high end type cost?

  131. Wow , I must say our choices are quite similar because i also don’t like these type of dresses

  132. Never been a sequin fan….. apparently I’m more feminine that I ever knew

  133. I am currently in the middle of a weight loss journey and I have been noticing that because of my current body shape even elegant clothing options look “cheap” or “older” on me. I’m really struggling to find balance right now. Would love a video on how to address this ❤️

  134. How to look elegant without looking boring? I need a detailed video on this covering all scenarios i.e Vacations, Dinners, Parties.. because I get confused after ever video

  135. I mostly just watch these because I love her voice.

  136. Would love to see u take someone shopping to thrift or consignment store

  137. Fantastic advice. Thank you!

  138. What about silk dresses??

  139. My 9 years old son will never allow me to wear like those, never go out with me. He only allow me to wear sexy when Im with his dad. Wow my child is already concervative at his age

  140. I have to agree in every video You made Your opinion is so honest i like it 🙂

  141. I love how you are making fun of yourself. You are the best Anna! Thank you so very much for all that you do for us!

  142. in the east women (supposedly) follow this rule: either wear a low cut neckline or a short skirt/short shorts, never both, and they so often look very feminine and elegant.

  143. Looooooveee your videos!!!

  144. I wear a cotton nightgown over a full length silk skirt with a cotton underskirt.

  145. I have to add, the photos when she was brunette are darling! She is so beautiful and precious.

  146. I love that Ana used her intellect to define and discern what elegance is all down the the dirty details! She had a mission and worked until she fully understood it.

  147. “Who are you dressing for, your man or other women?” Such good advice!

  148. Shoulder pads or epaulette can be elegant in my opinion. Look at lady diana, she was amazing and so elegant and wear shoulders pads

    1. Ya I felt the same …but can’t deny that it makes u look a lil bulky

  149. I am not even into dresses but i luuuv the critics😂

  150. She’s savage

  151. I tried to get the cheat sheet but it didn’t send. I successfully signed up for emails though…

  152. Someone needs to say this your advice is very emotionally abusive towards women and its not women who need to change its you. Take some time to look into why you need to chase a man for money and make your own. We are in a generation of women who are classy and feminine who follow fashion. Your advice is so toxic and you wonder why domestic violence is a pandemic. I hope you seek change and self love instead of giving toxic advice to women who are vulnerable. What most women need to do is be in their own lane and power without listening to toxic relationship coaches who prey on the week.

    Look inside yourself before you give advice.

    1. If u walk into the Ritz ..wearing one of those desperate body con dresses …do u really think high calibre guys r gonna come up and talk to u ..no u ll be attracting desperate guys who r willing to hit it with anyone

  153. Whenever she mentioned “cheap word”
    it makes me laugh and remember someone 🤣

  154. Ok, you crossed the line on Herve Leger. Since Iman can do no wrong and I met her wearing this I say you are off base. (For Iman though, not everyone else, lol)

  155. I can’t stand you, you are just so funny talking about them at dress you wore 😂😂😂

    Much love 🌹

  156. I liked how you didn’t sugar coat anything. Also do you have any advice for winter outfits as well?

  157. I like the way you advice Ma’am.

  158. Can you react on miss universe gowns?

  159. Question will a wrap or a shawl be classy with a short dress or is it a no it goes with long dresses?

  160. Ik right!!! I’ve always hated these dresses. It makes me laugh when some silly girls think showing their skin gonna make them look more independent lol. And how they argue with the thing that if men can show off their body then we can too🙄.

    1. @sis please YESSS YESS THAT’S THE EXACT SENTENCE😂

    2. We can do whatever we want

  161. Do you have a style personality quiz? That would be fun. Love your channel. Thank you.

  162. its depend where and what occasion

  163. Isn’t a great portion of fashion made by gay men. Nothing against gay men but could that be why most fashion right now has no curves /class. It’s a lot of straight lines, over boldness etc. Not made to accentuate femininity in a woman. What do you think Elegant ladies?

  164. The man repellent dress 😂

  165. We shold get dressed according to our body type …if u r hourglass u can wear bodycon dresses …

  166. Thank you so much

  167. The way she speaks itself is so elegant!

  168. I am Persian and I do LOVE sequin dresses and nice ornamental embellishments and everything that is glamorous. It DEPENDS on the quality and the pattern of the embellishments. Embellishments and patterns are supposed to symbolize the heritage, creativity, femininity and and beauty. Certain flower combinations are symbolic and speak a subtle language. Also I love elegant peacock embellishments or Asian patterns.

  169. Let’s not make this about men. Men like anything. They like whatever. Anyways according to this video I am an expert man repeller lol

  170. I feel like she’s the woman you ask for an opinion because you can trust she’s deadass honest ☠️☠️

  171. That is not a man repeller dress, it’s body-con.

  172. I love you! You’re so funny & an incredible inspiration✨ thank you for sharing all that you know & helping create & bring more elegance into the world💖

  173. I have a Man and still want to attract him! Hellooooohhh!!!! We are Female Humans this is Natural! Get over yourselves and be beautiful! 🥂💋💅🏽

  174. I love how you used yourself as an example at first. 😫😂😂😂🥴🏆💕

  175. I actually love bodycon and bandage dresses, of course depending on the type of occasion and place. I don’t want to wear certain type of fashion just to be able to enter high society (don’t even care about high society) or to attract men, I want to wear what makes me happy and makes me feel good…

  176. Metallic dresses can work with a good design. Either avant-garde design or simple silhouettes.

  177. Most affluent people have designer stuff but the logos are always always hidden. 🙂

  178. Her: it makes her look really fat!
    Me: And i took that personally.

  179. Show less cause less is more ✨

  180. You know what makes it fun to listen to you..itsyour sense of humour that’s so natural

  181. Wow thank u so much for this video! Very educational.

  182. Agree with most of your fashion points apart from the bandage. For example, Francesca by House of CB especially when you size up shows a pinch of cleavage, doesn’t have that awful line that pinches fat out and is a midi. It looks amazing on most people (with hourglass) I have seen it on. More so in the dark colors. This is a trending fashion, yet is not obnoxious like previous bandage models. It’s also beneficial for people who need a corset-style suck-in on a waist line.

  183. Love it where you always told us openly that you were also plain Jane like most of girls but you transform yourself to be better version of you

  184. I want her consultation on my wedding dress lol

  185. Omg YOU Re Soooooooo Funnyyyy😂😂😂😂😂😂😂👌💯💃😍

  186. Some of us really need to repel men! 😂😂

  187. When Anna talked about the Herve Leger dresses, I thought, “It can’t be THAT bad…” So I went to the Herve Leger website and I was like.. Oh, my eyes are bleeding! Like the website’s full of bodycon dresses, bandage dresses, and more. Now, I know why you really emphasized those topics. And I was even more disgusted when I saw the price tag of these dresses-

  188. I would love to see her and amber scholl go shopping together , the CONFLICT WOULD BE INSANE 😬🔥

  189. Oh You’re wrong about sequin dress..

  190. Great advice. Elegance, good material, great cut with minimal frills or patterns. I wish every woman dressed as well as you do. Also, you should have mentioned, please God, no flowers!

  191. I have to disagree on the sequins. Some sequin gowns are gorgeous, Sophisticated, elegant, and sexy. It all depends on the design and more importantly who is wearing it

  192. give us an example of what to wear then 😴

  193. Hmm, all the short dresses look the same to me.

  194. ” pause right now and throw it out” I love your humor! I’m here to make my husband proud when he looks at me. He’s an elegant, classy man.

  195. The dresses you picked are actually pathetic 😂

  196. Now I understand why you demean revealing dresses, actually you don’t have sense to wear those. Better keep yourself completely covered 😂😂😂😂.

  197. We need a nails video please. Thanks

  198. A video idea: classy WEDDING DRESS edition!

  199. I think Monica bellucci does the body con the right way. She does it calf length usually with her hair done well and lovely accessories. I think body cons can go either way it’s just the way it’s styled.

  200. Ladies, the simple truth Ana is saying here is that any woman of any age who is dressed in a skimpy, too short, too tight attention seeking dress is viewed by others as a trashy cheap girl, not an elegant woman. Men like cheap girls for filings, but not to “take home to mother”. Dress to be classy at all times, whether seeking a rich man or not. you can’t go wrong with being elegant and classy. Look at Kate Middleton for style inspiration on how to look lovely without ever looking trashy.

  201. Do you have advice for women who have an hour glass shape, also I’d love to see a video on business professional.

  202. I think that the problem is today is that women are trying to look sexy but fall short. A well-designed dress that looks classy can be appealing.

  203. Dear Anna. Maybe you could make a video which dresses are more stylish and elegant with specific examples?

  204. Literally, the only elegant lady who can pull off those sparkles is Paris Hilton because she has such a persona that is made for the style, which most of the people don’t, and not bother to make an image to fit the style.

  205. the only person i have to impress is myself and the only person i dress for is myself, because i am the queen of my world

  206. 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩

  207. It’s not always the case though, Kate Middleton caught William’s attention in a fashion show wearing a see-through dress. Men like revealing clothes with a hard to get woman. Go figure!

  208. 😂

  209. Everytime I see a sequin dress, I think of my hair getting caught in it. No thank you.

  210. Loved your topic . Wowwwww

  211. Hi thank you great suggestions

  212. No baggy, no sequin , no bodycon hmmmmmm.

  213. ı love how youre honest really anna

  214. I worry if I don’t have some form fit I’ll look frumpy, I’m a strong pear shape and I don’t want to add weight to my plus size frame.

  215. Goodness Anna.. It is my first day of watching your videos and I feel like I don’t want to leave my computer!
    Thank you for your straight forward view points and for being yourself!
    Looking forward for new ones!
    Stay safe!

  216. 5:16
    Paris Hilton

  217. *LaDy GAga LeFt THe cHaT*

  218. For those of you complaining about how she said attracting men, you prolly search classy dressing and came here but her channel content is focused on attracting high class men. So before you complain look into that and stop telling her what she should base her content on 🙄

  219. let people wear what they want this is their life nobody can say what is elegant what is cheap or whatever , people are coming from different cultures so each dress can be elegant in each culture , its 2020 and still less is more??? no , this idea is for many years ago, nobody can say which dress is elegant let people be happy with their clothes

  220. Your teeth 😍

  221. Okay what?😂😂😂😂😑

    1. Exactly like bodycon dresses are so pretty and fitting. My body type doesnt fit any of the dresses she suggested

  222. Being feminine and different fashion is all personal choice. Guess the women getting mad at her in the comments don’t understand that themselves. I am a tomboy, my daily foot wear is hiking boots, I stumbled across this channel watching reviews on Fjallraven Kanken. I like that this woman doesn’t sugar coat for other women who can’t understand that what you do with yourself is your choice, and watching this and getting upset is also a choice.

  223. Is her husband a millionaire ??? I definitely want to know 😌😌😌😌. Also , make a video on veneers or Hollywood smile tips ❤️❤️❤️

  224. Nordstrom rack is a girls best friend 😍

  225. I hate sequins, with a furious passion lol

  226. I don’t have a sister… But if I had… I wish.. You were my sister… Elder sister 🙂 I love you always lot :*

  227. l realllly appreciate your honesty and transparency. l also love how you toast your younger self 🤣🤣🤣we’ve all been there sis!!!

    1. *roast

  228. I really like your Chanel, I’m becoming more and more feminine by whatching them

  229. In my opinion a really short mini-dress combined with bare legs can never look classy. If you cannot sit down without revealing your underpants, that’s not classy. Extremely short dresses also give the vibe of “That’s a long blouse. Poor girl forgot to put on her trousers or skirt”

  230. Lmao all the girls in the comments acting like they dont care about looking attractive 🤣🤣🤣

  231. Gurl you sound stupid… these dresses are fine.

  232. 😂😂😂You are very funny 👌

  233. You’re hilarious and so authentic🌸😍

  234. I’m petite and curvy, I can’t wear loose dresses like the ones you provided. The best types of dresses on my body shape are ones that show off my shape instead of eating my body up, therefore they tend to be bodycon or more structured dresses.

    1. Same. My measurements are 41, 28, 43. I get countless compliments in the outfits I wear and I don’t have any issues with men either. So just wear what you feel confident in 🤷‍♀️

    2. Have you tried skater dresses? I like them

    3. Wrap dresses will be your bff.

    4. All the ones she suggested were tailored dress to the bodies. They were all figure flattering. In her other videos, she talks about how you want clothes that follow along the shape of your body and to not wear baggy clothing. She’s a fan of more structured dresses. I definitely suggest watching her video on how to dress for your shape since she might have more options that appeal to you. It may also explain her reasoning for why some styles of clothes are more elegant than others.

  235. The thing is not every women is dressed for other men to be attracted to her or other women to like her or be jealous of her it’s a matter of personal style and choice i do agree that some of these dresses don’t look beautiful but it also depends on who wears them and how they style them.

  236. Yes.I really can’t stand seeing cheap looking dresses on hot bodies 😁

  237. Thank you, my background isn’t appropriate but with you I’m learning thank you for teaching all of US ♥️

  238. Are you available for hire as a stylist?

  239. She sounds so similar to Gina from Brooklyn 99

  240. this category of videos feels like the female equivalent of “chad” memes, im here for it

  241. What is your opinion on corset tops?

  242. My favorite videos are when you’re in a humorous mood and are kind of sassy and sarcastic. Bonus points for when you’re talking trash about your younger style – hilarious!

  243. Totally agree! Good taste is very important

  244. Would you say that Satin dress is metallic?

  245. But….but…. her patterns dress looks like Batik. In Indonesia we wear Batik in a formal occasion. And I don’t dress for men or other women, I dress for myself. I love seeing myself in a beautiful dress

  246. 100% agree

  247. What material clothing she’s using in this video?

  248. Those without money buy objects to make them look richer and show an exaggerated financial status. While the rich go after objects worth meaning and value.

  249. I’m a young Grandma and won’t wear these dresses 👗🤗🤣

  250. This was funny! I have a dress code for when I go out alone or with friends, with family and on a date. And of course my outfit and makeup vary depending on the event and time of day. I am “guilty” of the occasional artsy, avant garde vintage fit, but it suits my personality, and I think that is what’s most important. BUT I am very tall and short dresses look DANG SHORT on me. Time to do some summer cleaning! Thanks 🙂

  251. You sound like sofy in 2 brok girls… 😝

  252. Can someone wear a pretty dress and still be feminine.

  253. I love the videos it’s true

  254. This video was well needed.

  255. I agree. agree agree. If you have any of those cheap dresses in your closet. GET RID OF IT! Oh and let me say that body shape has a lot to do with it.

  256. So… where can I find a man repellant dress? Asking for a friend. 👀

  257. ❤️❤️❤️

  258. “Like pause this video and go throw it out” 😂

  259. I may not agree with everything… but I appreciate your bluntness

  260. Please, please, please review wedding dresses!

  261. Wear a silk /cotton saree… 😀 Elegance at it’s best ❤️

  262. Yea hell nah I’m wearing what I want 😂

  263. i love these roasts

  264. … Jodies dress looks perfect…wth???

  265. Please tell me why it is ok to wear sneakers with dress 👗???

  266. What do you think about the lolita style? I think the cutesy but elegant style really makes me happy,, and lots of the lolita dresses are full of ruffles and bows that make you look like you’re from the 1800s with a modern twist that makes you seem like you know what fashion across the centuries is like, the different skirt silhouettes that you can add to certain personal touch to. Because the 19th century lady’s motto was “there’s never too much”, making it so easy to seem feminine with “too much” as you’d put it, a large puffy skirt with ruffles and bows makes the whole dress come together.

  267. I like that you’re not sugar coating your words. Feels like advice from an elder sister

    1. agree

    2. She is just teaching women to dress a certain way to please men. So cheap

    3. @Amrutha G maybe could have just said sister without saying elder

    4. So true

    5. @Jessica S You might want to google that Jessica. Saying “older sister” dictates that the sister is aged, while the words “elder sister” are used to refer someone’s sister who is born before. Thus, “older” expresses the specific stage of life but “elder” is for comparison of age-figures.

  268. Long story short the kardashain/Jenner fashion trends look cheap and I totally agree with that

    1. @姫いちご〜未来さくら true

    2. @Abigail Haries having neutral color palette doesn’t means elegance you can wear cobalt blue and fuchsia and still look elegant but Kim wears very revealing clothes which doesn’t looks elegant I mean it is her choice but she doesn’t looks like an billionaire in those fits

    3. @Cadomerjall Kendall doesn’t have a style she is skinny and tall that is why any type of cloth looks good on her and also she is a model she can pull off almost everything

    4. I love Kris Jenner’s fashion style, it’s classy, sexy and age appropriate.

    5. nah

  269. so basically she’s saying if you want to look on the high end side stay away from fashion nova.. GOT IT

    1. @Cat 123 Have you heard ‘first impression’?

    2. @Cat 123 ur wrong buddy. Where you live and the social crowd ur in maybe.

    3. I was recommended fashion Nova when I said I needed a cocktail dress. Two minutes in the website showed me I was in the wrong website. I wanted to look classy, not trashy

    4. LOL! Big facts

    5. Exactly

  270. Oh my God! I’ve just discovered you and I am so in love with you! 🌷

  271. This girl is too funny. I love it lol

  272. The don’t buy dresses are not that much different than the do buy dresses.

  273. I see Kylie Jenner wearing body con dress to extremely classy places 😂

  274. Oh gosh! She is discussing about the physical, girls. No need to drag the mindset and everything else. If you do not like this, then leave. If you want to drop your opinion, then be kind. You are talking about the elegant mindset or so, however, you all are not doing the right thing.

  275. interesting Jesus bless

  276. This was hilarious! But so true.

  277. I’m nearly 15 years old, and even at this age, I can tell that bodycons dress look…well…
    Not really elegant 😅…
    I have nothing you said in this video (clothes).
    Yeaaah ! I’m a bit elegant 😂
    I will to become an elegant lady ☺.
    I always like to dress well and look good because it makes me feel powerful and pretty.
    And I love this feeling 😂

  278. I couldnt agree with this video more n im 18

  279. it is very trendy nowadays to wear clothes that make you look masculine or unisex also choose the way we shape our brows is the tendency of the world to have a unique sex no difference between girls and boys just have one way to dress and uniform both genders all comes from the global agenda and they over all of this as a trendy when obviously it’s not pretty is not elegant is not feminine but because it is popular or girls buy those so they look horrible and guys become gays loljajaja

  280. How can I be both

  281. can you please make a video about dresses that are considered elegant and classy? and what to wear to different occasions etc. thank you!!

  282. No thanks im gay

  283. You are beautiful

  284. Why does being feminine have to mean attracting men? not everyone wants to be elegant to snatch a man.

    1. her channel is about this.

    2. True

    3. Evelyn García ababhahaha true 😂

    4. yes, but her audience does, and guess what? not every channel is tailored specifically for you or people like you

    5. There are plenty of other feminity channels that don’t talk about it. Go watch them if you want. I’m a teen and not looking to attract men lol so I’m going to watch other feminity channels I’m not hating on her because I know I’m not her audience.

  285. ASOS was FINISHED in this video.

  286. Guess I’ll be throwing away almost everything 😂😂
    I love you though

  287. Now I get that why people compliments me more when I wear the dresses selected by my mom😏

    1. Haha

    2. Same in high school I would dress my self and when my mom picked my outfit a lot of people were complementing me

    3. @Cherry Kid thank you! I found it on Pinterest, while searching for surreal illustrations

    4. I like your pfp! Where did you get it?

  288. Very interesting topic Anna. Thank you for doing this. Most women need to be educated on this matter.

  289. How short should be your dress

  290. Your accent is so aristocratic and soothing.

  291. People judge women all the time for what they wear, in my opinion wear whatever you want because people will always categorise or label you regardless!

    1. @Auréliane N. of course it is your choice but if you don’t care then why are you bothering to watch her videos?

    2. @Auréliane N. sure wear whatever you want but don’t blame the society for frowning at you, after all it’s their choice 😬

    3. @shedipity I’d rather wear wtf I want and not care about society fucked up labels for women. Is this the 1800s? Yuck.

    4. @wwwdots period 💯

    5. U want to get a decent job? U dress professional. So when you date someone with a certain status u think theyd like seeing trash?

  292. Great information as always. Thanks!

  293. I recently found your channel and I like your tips alot! Something I noticed, and I was wondering if you’ve thought about this, is that you often talk about being classy in a man’s perspective and what makes women attractive to men. And of course some men (and maybe the men some women want to attract) are drawn to elegant women. But for me, I just want to be more elegant for me. Because in a way, I’ve always felt elegant women as being more interesting. I’ve been in love with my man for quite some time now, and he with me and I don’t necessarily think one has to be classy to find the perfect man, but I don’t think you do either…? Sometimes it just comes across that way, and I’ve been wondering if this channel is truly for me, someone who just want to be elegant for themselves and no one else?

  294. You have to dress well to get high quality men! Lol! Loudmouth at her best!

  295. She reminds me of the girl from the incredible so mich

  296. The men part 🤢

  297. New youtuber!!🥰you made my day😂you are funny

  298. I FEEL like m being majorly lectured on poor dressing choices iv made due to that terrible mentality i had from wanting to look sexy, the IT GIRL and fabulous.I feel bad…subscribing now!!

  299. Some sequin dresses look really good but they are going to be expensive…I saw a bottle green sequin gown which was kinda sexy and beautiful at the same time worn by an actress of my country….and last yr sequin sarees which were beautiful were in trend as partywear….it would be expensive but u can’t say that sequin dress don’t look good

  300. “To each, their own” is my MAJOR opinion for this entire video.

  301. Are u married ?

  302. Wow. Learned a lot. Didn’t realise those bad dresses were bad until you explained it and showed better options. Thanks again for these videos.

  303. The most elegant Muslim women is sheikha mozah the Qatar’s princess, keep doing what are doing you inspire a lot of women all around the world

  304. My 12 year old is taking notessss😁😁😁

  305. “if you have a bad taste, then you simply had a bad taste” my favourite

  306. Thank you so much I love your opinion so honest. ❤️ I am a fashion and lifestyle management student your videos helps me a lot to stand out … I hope I can make honest videos like you soon as well . ❤️

  307. Hello
    I just love your straight forwardness. Thank you for sharing your thoughts

  308. 😂😂😂😂Pathetic frill

  309. Lots of delusion in the comment section😂

  310. I wouldn’t be safe out in these bodycon dresses. I’ve been attacked at bars wearing long skirts before. Try to look as classy and elegant as possible; you don’t want to purposely attract the wrong kind of attention.

  311. 😂😅My dear elegant lady, you killed me with the versace dress😂😅

  312. I’m left confused cause the clothes labeled feminine always leave me looking horrible. Floral patterns look disgusting and unflattering. The frills on those dresses also don’t do anything for me. And since I’m short, those skirts and dresses that were elegant always make me look like a dwarf. Not to mention I’m a tomboy at heart. So where can I find my femininity at 😭😭

    1. You should read about kibbe body types. Girly frilly outfits don’t suit me either. Then I discovered that I’m a soft gamine, that needs to balance the masculine and feminine aspects when choosing an outfit. There’s a channel called “ally art” that explains this concept very well.

  313. girls, if this content is not for you, then just do not watch her video. All people are different, for some girls the positive attention of men and the desire to like them is normal. If you want to wear everything you like, then such videos are simply not for you .

  314. Guess my mother taught me right I don’t like any of these dresses.

  315. This video was great. I love the editing and her energy in this video. She made me laugh a lot.

  316. I WANT the star trek dress…

  317. Thankyou so much for this video

  318. I love you, Anna! Thanks to share this beneficial information to all of us 💕

  319. 😍 that’s sooooo great

  320. the bodycon dress part is so true…

  321. Glitterortti 😫😭😂😂😂😂💯

  322. NOBODY CARES IF YOU DON’T WANNA ATTRACT MEN! Just accept some people do and shut up, stop forcing your feminist narrative on us

  323. Yes loved this video!

  324. This video is only true to an extent. If you look at the Kardashians, they are billionaires and style icons to hundreds of millions of people and they dress in bodycon dresses. I agree with most of what she is saying but some is a little off. I really doubt Kim Kardashian who is richer than all of us wouldn’t walk into a fancy hotel in one of her hundred bodycon dresses. Trust me, she’s fine…

  325. This is so true. I’m someone who studied masters abroad (I’m from Indonesia) and happened to met a nice dutch guy while studying there. After graduating, when he came to visit me, going out in Jakarta with him makes me dress more conservatively. I don’t wanna be seen as those ‘sexy third world country girls chasing white men’. If that even makes sense. A lot of them are out in clubs/bars looking for white men. I don’t wanna be mistaken as one 🙂

  326. Most elegant dresses I’ve seen often emphasise the neck, shoulders, and collarbones area, not the cleavage.

  327. You were looking lovely in the dress…Cuz you looked happy 🙂

  328. A lot of the dresses you showed I actually love. I have a sequin dress that I eventually gave to my aunt. My aunt is tall with a beautiful figure. She wears the sequin dress everywhere! I love glitter & sparkles.

  329. Any advice on how to dress more elegant if you already found your man? My boyfriend is a doctor and I would like to change my style, at the moment it is too cheap and girly. I want to look classy 😉

  330. 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂

  331. Bodycon sequin dress 😭😩

  332. Ahí Anna, I am an attractive woman younger than my partner. Please, if you can make a video of classy and elegant dressing, general things. I hope you can help me. Thanks! I must tell you that there is a problem with access to your links. Bye Anna.

  333. Literally my entire wardrobe in my early 20s 😂

  334. Love the honesty this was FUN thank you

  335. gotta go and throw my whole wardrobe right know x)

  336. You are soooo classy i loveeee it❤

  337. The rule of thumb is flirt with one body part at a time. Showing a little cleavage cover more leg or cover the chest and show some leg. Even a high end dress can look trashy if showing too much skin. Flirt with intent.

  338. You are changing my life. I will thank you FOREVER

  339. Sometimes we think what looks good was actually horrible 😂😅

  340. I love your videos and agree with each of your points in this excellent one. HOWEVER, I disagree with your assessment of your own past mistakes. The first dress and the second dress styles were beautiful on you. They were fun, young, carefree, and very complimentary to your gorgeous face and figure. Being elegant does NOT mean being an old fuddy-duddy. You had such amazing style—so as you look back on it don’t discredit yourself just because you are older now. Youth attracts. Maybe it is not elegant in an old fuddy-duddy way, but you can also be very elegant as your past photos demonstrate. They are not fashion mistakes. They are not inelegant. They are life itself.

  341. What about outfit for shorter girls ?

  342. I’m here because I appreciate feminity and elegance. When she says “for men” it doesn’t bother me at all, it’s understandable because men pick up on feminine energy more directly. I’m single and plan on staying as such, but getting these tips as they are makes total sense to me.

  343. Stai bene mora

  344. Just going to purchase a tweed suit (blazer/boucle + skirt) 😬

  345. We stayed at a nice hotel for Thanksgiving weekend last year. After Thanksgiving dinner there was a cocktail hour. A woman came in with an attention seeking, bright red body con dress with a chrismas holiday theme going on. She got so many stares. I actually felt bad for her because you can tell she wanted to have a good time and was in the holiday mood. But this elegant event was not the place.

  346. This shows how shallow men are! I don’t want attract that type of man! I want a man to loves me for me not because of my looks! Women are not objects! They are a living breathing being that has a personality and a brain!

    1. @Little Floppa well I don’t think any man will want to be with me! I thank you for your kind words though

    2. And this is the mindset that will get you a great man! Congrats young lady, you’re a smart woman and that’s rare 💜

  347. Thank you for tips in dressing, They are helpful

  348. This is a 12:31mins video and all you hear is dress to attract men. Filter the video on what you want to absorb and learn but don’t judge her intention. Some people might need to here that phrase. If its not for you then skip it.

  349. My mum and my gran taught me well. A classic look never goes out of fashion, is slimming and always looks good.

  350. I personally love how you looked in the bandage dress and bright colors…you looked more fun and alive 😂

  351. what kind of outfits are suitable for clubbing and night outs? something that’s more appropriate but doesn’t look trashy or like…trying too hard.

  352. I love your very soft, gentle sense of humor❤️